Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hello everyone…

It appears Ms. Jameson has returned to the scene… and in quite a ‘lively’ manner!

Attached is an email I received last night…

PLEASE REMEMBER THESE ARE NOT MY OPINIONS!!!!

Since the Mansion is being criticized elsewhere, I felt our members should be informed…

Oh… and for those who wish to reply, the sender’s address is:

Keep in mind that if you DO email back, you might end up part of the database used to send these messages…

With warmest regards (and my sincere apologies for being the ‘bearer of bad news…’) J. *I really should know better—correction… I do know better. But sometimes my enduring optimism makes me ignore my experience and instincts, leading me to do things that are quite foolish.

And wrestling with pigs is one such thing.

You’ve heard the saying, right? The one about “Never wrestle with a pig - you both get covered in mud and the pig enjoys it”.

Well, this specific instance of pig-wrestling was over a forum ostensibly created for “discussion” regarding male chastity and related kinks, but seems practically to be more of a place where you are expected to show deference and agree with whichever loud-mouthed and hysterical harpy screams the loudest (hint: she’ll usually describe herself—sorry, Herself—as “Goddess” or “Mistress” something).

Yes, some, perhaps most, realize it’s just a bit of fun. But some, specifically those I was discussing, truly believe female superiority is a “fact”. And they don’t like their foolishness being exposed as… well… foolish.

Here’s a typical comment from one of them: “Hum…’Sa{har}rah”- Dry, dusty, harsh, desolate place where very few care to go. Hum..?? imagine that..”

Way to go! If you can’t discredit someone’s arguments, insult them instead! That represents the level of intelligence we are dealing with here. She/he/it can’t even spell it correctly. Goodness.

A couple of people sent me private messages calling me the “voice of reason” and using other nice phrases, although it is a pity they feel unable to do so openly. It just shows the kind of environment these “superior women” create.

Still, I am the fool for wasting my time. I hoped for rational discussion, and I received what I deserved for my stupidity. I am indeed thoroughly covered in mud. But the point is that you can almost never change people’s minds by arguing with them or presenting facts. They are entrenched in their beliefs and methods, and logic won’t sway them unless they sit down and think things through on their own.

It is the same when trying to “convince” your wife or girlfriend (or husband or boyfriend) to “try” male chastity. The most common approach is to have them sit down and list out the benefits. But take a step back and consider this: you are proposing something very new, perhaps quite kinky (in their view), which they may well feel will mean BIG changes in your entire relationship. What’s worse, they go to what has become the Font of All Knowledge these days—Google—they type in “male chastity” and start reading. Unfortunately, they then encounter Forums and Blogs that are likely to scare them off because they are extreme, inaccurate, and uninterested in distinguishing truth from falsehood. In any case, aside from hype and fantasy, facts and information won’t help—to be convinced, they need to convince THEMSELVES, which requires experiencing it and feeling it happen. So, show them rather than just telling them. Proceed slowly and carefully, realizing that it is not like poking your eye out or losing a limb—if you make something important by getting flustered, it doesn’t matter much unless you do so. The main thing is to start gently, with small baby-steps. She will generally come around to the idea quickly once she begins experiencing the benefits for herself. In fact, it is typically true that women grow into the concept and practice more rapidly and comprehensively than their men might like. But that’s another story for another day.

I hope your year has begun brilliantly and full of all the chastity you desire. In His Chastity, Sarah xxx*