The community board
Personals for couples, hotwives and single men
This is the board for the part that comes after the reading: saying out loud what you are looking for, and reading what other people are looking for. Posts are grouped by who is writing them. Each one says what the person wants, what they do not want, and roughly where they are.
There are two ways through it. The posts below are grouped by who wrote them, and the same board also runs city by city across 21 places, because where somebody is decides most of what is practical.
How the board is run Posts here are anonymous and the board keeps them that way. No names, email addresses, phone numbers, messaging handles, external profiles or photographs are ever published, and none are ever asked for. A post says what the two of you are looking for, or what you are offering as a third, and roughly where you are. Nothing on this board is for hire, so anything with a price on it comes off, along with anything describing a person who did not agree to be described, and along with the same post copied city to city. Posts run for six weeks and then retire. Every one of them has a flag on it for the things we miss. Posting and replying both happen through the connected platform, where each person controls what they share and when.
Couple seeking
A couple looking for a third, together and on the same page.
Nothing posted under this heading yet.
Single man
A single man offering to be the third, and how he presents himself.
Nothing posted under this heading yet.
Hotwife solo
A woman searching with her partner’s knowledge and agreement.
Nothing posted under this heading yet.
Community
People wanting conversation, mentoring or local friends rather than a date.
Nothing posted under this heading yet.
The board, city by city
56 posts across 21 cities, under the same four headings and the same rules as everything above. Each city page also says how finding people actually works there, and what it costs in privacy.
New York
8 posts The busiest board here, and the one where a couple gets buried in replies. United StatesLos Angeles
8 posts Everyone drives, so a first drink is already a commitment. United StatesMiami
0 posts Fast, seasonal, and full of people who will be gone by spring. United StatesHouston
0 posts Room to host at home, and every reason not to be found out. United StatesDallas
0 posts Suburban, corporate, and careful about the neighbours. United KingdomLondon
8 posts Experienced couples, short patience, and nowhere to host. United KingdomManchester
8 posts Small enough that the person replying might know your neighbour. United KingdomLiverpool
0 posts The smallest English board and the warmest. United KingdomBirmingham
0 posts More first-time couples than anywhere else on the board. United KingdomGlasgow
0 posts Blunt about the arrangement, and indoors for half the year. GermanyBerlin
8 posts Nobody here is embarrassed, and nobody needs it explained. GermanyHamburg
0 posts Quieter than Berlin, and looking for one person rather than variety. SpainMadrid
0 posts Late nights, close family, and a board that empties in August. FranceParis
0 posts Long posts, small flats, and a real premium on anyone who can host. FranceLyon
0 posts Small, careful, and slow about photographs. NetherlandsAmsterdam
0 posts Direct about the arrangement, and honest about the housing. BrazilSão Paulo
0 posts Enormous, sociable, and friendship first. BrazilRio de Janeiro
0 posts Introduced through people first, and everybody knows somebody. CanadaToronto
8 posts Screened by the winter, hosted around a concierge desk. AustraliaSydney
8 posts Slow to screen, in a city where the circles overlap. RussiaMoscow
0 posts Private by default, and slow on purpose.If the board is the first thing you have read here
Every post above assumes the words already mean something to you. These three are where that comes from, and none of them takes long.
- What cuckolding actually is
- Cuckold, hotwife, stag and vixen: the words
- What it is actually like, against what you imagined