Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

For us, teasing helps me endure my chastity. My wife doesn’t demand sexual pleasure from me, but if she gets aroused by my frustrated moans, she will use her vibrator while I lie there quietly and kiss her. She has no need for oral sex from a man, and intercourse is out of the question. She can reach climax when I give her oral, which remains as an occasional treat reserved just for me. It’s not really what she prefers. I’ve read that many men have to perform various tasks or undergo procedures for their Keyholder. I simply lie back and try to hold my release. How about you? Is it more beneficial for your own sake or yours Keyholder?