Introductions discussion

Hello everyone! I’ve been lurking here for a bit, soaking up knowledge and dreaming of being locked down. I’m a married man of 43 years old. My wife and I occasionally get into some quirky stuff together (like anal play and hanging out with friends). I also wear panties full-time and enjoy other lingerie and dressing up for her pleasure. I still masturbate regularly, just as always. Recently my wife has been under the weather which caused our sex life to dip a bit. She still desires it (as do I), but there’s often some hurdle stopping us from being intimate. Now she is starting to think I’m not interested anymore even though I try to start things up when she seems ready. I’ve been browsing porn on tumblr and male chastity caught my eye. Since I enjoy restraining and tucking my cock, I figured this could give a nice sensation while keeping me from jerking off without her knowledge.

I just received my first device in the mail. It’s an affordable jailbird style made in China that I picked up on Amazon. I’ve tried it on and the fit feels good; it is comfortable to wear with one minor issue: the bar for the lock needs rounding where it touches my skin above my cock. That will be a simple fix this weekend. So far, I have managed to sleep in it and wear it all day at work the next day. Hoping to discuss it with her over the weekend to see if she is interested. Knowing her well, she probably will be.