Steve2059 An Amazing (at least to me) Odyssey

This is my story over the last eighteen months or so since I discovered that chastity was a real thing, and also the one thing I’d been waiting for which nicely ties several kinks and fetishes together in a single kinky package. It’s equally the tale of my wife’s journey as She learned to stop worrying and love her power. Since I’m starting from scratch, I’ll break things up into chapters on this forum. To begin, I’ve always been kinkier than my wife, although most properly kinky folk would have called us both vanilla. I’ve always liked a bit of bum play and some bondage, enjoy thongs and hosiery, and have had a thing for shaving my pubes for many years. Over the course of thirty-odd years our sex life grew into a comfortable and predictable routine, generally on a weekly basis, which remained the case for many years. Around May or June 2017, surfing around soft porn one evening, I came across edging. This interested me because it was something I thought I’d invented (though twenty minutes was my max denial) and I was surprised to find out it was a whole kink unto itself (which says much about my naivety). After a couple of weeks on a site called Edgemeplease, I was surfing again. Looking for a JOI video, I came across a chastity site, probably Male Chastity Lifestyle, and was astounded to find that people, usually men of a certain age (like mine), got off on not orgasming and handing sexual power to their significant others. Because it involved a lot of stuff new to me, like locking up our cocks, plus extreme things I would never be into such as cuckolding or sissyfication, it took a little while for the idea to take hold that this might be a long-term thing. The other reason it didn’t immediately appeal was that I already regularly went a week or more without orgasms, which wasn’t an erotic experience at all.