There will never be a photograph of me, and it is about work
Looking for a couple who can judge me on a call rather than an image
There is no photograph of me anywhere connected to any of this and there is never going to be. The reason is my work, which is public enough that an image in the wrong place would be a story, and I have watched that happen to somebody I know.
I appreciate this makes me harder to trust than a man who sends a picture in message two. What I offer instead is more, not less: a video call whenever you like, meeting in person before anything else happens, and complete honesty about who I am within the call. What I will not do is leave an image sitting on somebody's phone.
Forty seven, the east side, six years in this. Three arrangements, the longest three years. I can host, my place is quiet, and I have exactly the kind of hours that make weekday afternoons easy and Friday nights unpredictable.
What I want is one couple over a long stretch, ideally with the husband as involved as he cares to be.
Not looking for anyone who will accept this and then ask again once we have met, which is the most common thing that happens. Not looking for anyone who finds the caution intriguing rather than tedious, because it is tedious. Not looking to be asked what I do, which I will answer with a general shape and nothing more until quite late on.
Before the first drink Replying goes through the connected platform, so nothing about you is shared until you decide to share it. Take contact slowly and keep identifying details back until trust is earned. Meet somewhere public the first time, with your own way home from it, and if you are a couple then go together. Tell someone outside it where you are going. Never send money to someone you have not met. And if a post or a reply reads wrong, flag it rather than talking yourself out of the feeling.
Before you answer a post like this
Answering as a couple means screening him together rather than one of you doing it privately. Start here.