Introductions discussion

Hi everyone, I’ve been watching this place for a few weeks… roughly the same time that my wife and I have been diving deeper into understanding how to handle this chastity lifestyle… A while back, I picked up a CB-6000s and tried it on myself several times as I built up the nerve to bring the idea home. When I first mentioned it to her and showed off the gadget, she wasn’t very keen. She found it a little strange, couldn’t see why I’d want one, and thought the cage looked amusing—which is fair enough!:) Still, after working from home for a couple of days in a row and finding myself distracted by constant wanking (sorry!), I decided to lock up. When my wife returned from work, I brought out her favorite meal, poured wine, drew the bath, and let her unwind while I washed behind the scenes. She noticed me wearing it during her soak and I explained why I’d chosen that day for locking down. She didn’t seem bothered at all; instead, she seemed to realize that my earlier promises about paying more attention to her pleasure were genuine. We moved to the bedroom where I helped her reach multiple orgasms using both my tongue and her beloved large dildo. Suffice it to say, she’s kept me locked in the CB-6Ks almost continuously since then.:) She has really stepped up her game, issuing commands and tasks, clearly enjoying my predicament. She teases me enough that I can feel the struggle of trying to get hard inside it. She uses me entirely for her enjoyment, which also pushes the limits of my device. This is easily the best thing to happen in our 16-year marriage for both of us. Once she got on board with this lifestyle, I mentioned there were other options available that would be more durable, offer better hygiene, and sit more comfortably under clothes so we could feel confident about me wearing it to work. She happily agreed, allowing me to order a Mature Metal Jail Bird a few weeks ago; it should arrive any time now! We’re both thrilled for this new device and the fresh chapter in our marriage… I’m equally excited and nervous about the spike strip we ordered too, LOL. Anyway, that’s my story. Sorry for the lengthy introduction. It’s great to meet you all, and I look forward to learning from such a knowledgeable group.