Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone, I’ve been listening for a long while, now I’m speaking up;-)… To get to the point, we decided that with the start of the New Year would be the right time to dive into a fantasy my wife and I have cherished for quite some time. It seems about right to offer a bit of context. We’ve been wed for more than 25 years, navigating an on-and-off relationship over the decades involving Chastity, OD, D/s dynamics, Cuckolding, and similar practices. Outside our home life, I’m very much Type A; I make calls at work and push for what I believe is best professionally. At home, we stick to traditional roles but decide together as a team. The dynamic shifts inside the bedroom though. When she’s in the mood, she takes charge, which I love because it allows me to surrender control. It gives her room to be assertive while giving me permission to let go. Early on in my sexual journey, I realized I lean toward being submissive indoors, and that suits perfectly with her desire for leadership. Complications arise because she is bipolar; there are moments when play isn’t practical, and I have to be the strong one across the board. However, when she does want to engage—wow, it’s great. She has had lovers over the years (which can tie into her manic periods), and we’ve embraced chastity for me during those times. We’ve also explored many other activities through the years like wax, CBT, clamps, strap-ons, water sports, etc., whenever inspiration strikes, always with her enthusiastic buy-in. If she isn’t enjoying it, neither am I. When we practice chastity, it usually lasts 1-2 weeks, though sometimes stretching to three. Those longer stretches were very intense; some coincided with her traveling with her mom and sister while I was either at work or on my own business trip. One especially memorable instance involved a trip she took to South America, during which I went out for two business trips over those 3 weeks. I wore a CB-2000 fitted with a numbered plastic lock. We crossed paths in Houston (she returning from her travels and me departing on work), then traveled together back to Southern California by air. She was all over me, driving me wild. We barely made it into the house before she removed the lock near an open field outside town. So we’ve had our fun and want to move forward. We thought starting the New Year with a bang would be ideal; last year we started but hesitated at the end. This time, we’re diving in fully to see if we can sustain it. Essentially, I am permitted to ejaculate only on specific days throughout 2011 (though full day access is allowed on those dates). That totals 10 days this year. We’ll see how we fare over time. Additionally, there’s a potential lover for her in the mix that we plan to explore next week. He is completely straight, which works fine since my primary interest lies in creampies, although some gentle fluffing would have been nice; oh well… I will elaborate more within the Vault, which feels like the best spot for this ongoing adventure. I just wanted to share this here and hope to contribute regularly. I’ve followed this forum through the years and find you all both fun-loving and dedicated followers of our lifestyle. I aspire to be a positive member moving forward.