Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hey there, my flaccid penis measures around half to an inch in length. I gave the CB3000 a go and it barely managed to stay inside before popping out with little resistance. Since I have substantial testicles, I needed to opt for their biggest ring; the next size smaller caused them to burn and shift hue as if they were about to fall off. Could you recommend a device?

I’m someone who masturbates frequently (at least 8-10 times daily), and my wife would prefer that I hold back, only doing it when she permits. What is the top-rated non-custom option available today? Something like a BirdLock, Bon4, or Fort perhaps?