Journals and blogs discussion

Greetings everyone! I’m new to the group and would appreciate some feedback. I’ve been married for fifteen years, and lately our sex life has practically disappeared. Being a submissive is something I’ve always wanted, but up until now, things between us have been quite conventional. That said, I’ve recently become really interested in strapon play, being kept in chastity, and cuckolding scenarios. I’d like to start with the first two while keeping cuckolding as just an idea for now. The big question is: which should we tackle first, strapon or chastity? My wife knows nothing about this side of things, and honestly, I’m terrified to bring it up. Yes, open communication is key, but fear has me paralyzed! Also, a quick note on gear: A couple of years ago, I bought my wife her first vibrators (I’ve probably used them with her five times total). The very first one was actually a prostate massager—simple enough to start with. She felt it was too small, so I upgraded to a bigger model. Recently, I even had her use that prostate massager on me, and the experience was amazing! Any advice would be great!