Female led relationships discussion

My wife is now my Mistress. We have always viewed each other as equals in our partnership, but with the start of male chastity and her taking charge in the bedroom, I’ve realized she has far more needs than I ever knew. It brings me great joy to satisfy those requirements, and it keeps me hornier for much longer periods. She’s begun managing our sexual dynamic, which feels wonderful, and I’m starting to crave that authority. Interestingly, I feel a bit uneasy when she requests rather than commands what I should do.

I’m looking for advice on how my Mistress can become more comfortable with exercising greater control over me without me pushing or nagging her about it. I know she wants this power; she’s just unsure of the process and perhaps slightly hesitant.