Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I shared a brief intro in the Foyer yesterday. For those who missed it, I’ve recently entered into chastity. I don’t use a CD; my word is enough. My wife’s sex drive has dropped significantly compared to mine—we last slept together on June 28th and finalized our agreement just yesterday. The primary goal was to relieve the guilt she feels when turning down intimacy. I hadn’t anticipated her wanting action so soon, perhaps within another couple of days, but last night she was really turned on! (Did I mention we’re both sixty-two?) She experienced two intense orgasm peaks while I had none. Post-event frustration wasn’t as high as expected for me, though my sense of submission felt quite strong. So here is a question to the ladies: Does it appeal to you knowing that your pleasure takes center stage since husband isn’t receiving anything tonight? Do you feel more dominant in return? Can you pick up on his submissive demeanor?