Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hi Everyone. I have been lurking here for a bit and figured it was time to join in. For quite some time I’ve enjoyed alternative sexual practices (ever since I understood what bondage and fetish meant). I know I’m highly submissive. My girlfriend of several years knows this, but she hasn’t fully grasped the power I’m offering her yet. I love verbal humiliation, extreme CBT, anal penetration, silky textures, especially knickers, and nipple torture. My nipples are so sensitive that touching them can almost bring me to an orgasm, though I really do prefer begging for my nipples to be tortured. It’s humiliating, but I adore it. Kind of shows how weird I am lol If you need another example: while most men look at their Wife/Girlfriends’ friends and think about having sex with them, I look and wonder how cruel they could be towards me and how good serving them would feel. I’ve mentioned that I’d love for her to take charge of our relationship and handle all the house duties etc. In return, I would be ecstatic wearing a lock all week and allowed one orgasm per week (or whenever she decides is appropriate) while being tortured. I think this setup fits well because she doesn’t have much interest in sex right now, even though I tell her constantly how pretty and sexy she is. I really want to be under the thumb so to speak. She would love a spotless house though! I’m happy to do anything she asks; indeed, some of my ideas for what she could do with me might seem very extreme to others. I know this is where I belong because I enjoy dressing in women’s clothing. I’ve done it since I was a teenager, and being dressed like that would make me exceptionally happy. I even asked her to take me to get both nipples pierced as we start down the road of feminisation more and more. I also adore my self-imposed chastity. Whatever suggestions I seem to put forward, she doesn’t really show much interest. I even bought her a pink CB3000 and a whole host of other things for her (and only her) in an effort to encourage her, but we’re getting nowhere fast. Can anyone help me make her realize what I am offering? Any advice is appreciated.