Guidelines and Regulations in Practice

As I navigate these waters in real life since bringing OD and chastity into the picture last autumn, I’ve been examining the rules. A search of this forum didn’t turn up anything helpful from the past couple of years, so I decided to open a new thread. I notice many sites establish strict regulations; while most seem rooted in fantasy or impractical for daily life, the core idea resonates with me. What’s your take?

• (Full) Orgasm: allowed yes/no (how often) Spills (minimized/ruined orgasms): yes/no (frequency) Mandatory consumption of own cum (this keeps coming up; my wife is puzzled by this apparent obsession/determination) PIV allowed yes/no Touching one’s genitals (masturbation) allowed yes/no, supervised/ Pegging (as training/prerequisite) Maintaining a spill diary This list isn’t exhaustive, but it already brings up so many questions. We still need to sort out PIV (and PIA too). My wife enjoys being penetrated by me; a dildo just doesn’t feel the same. However, I think enjoying it too often is excessive privilege. Handjobs seem like what I should receive most frequently, and even then, not always with full strokes… Any advice on handling this more systematically rather than ‘playing by ear’?