A Woman's Perspective on Denial

“What will you gain from this?” is the question KH’s often pose to men when they begin their chastity journey. Men, driven by a physical perspective, typically list tangible benefits like chores and body worship. However, it’s harder to articulate the emotional state that women usually inhabit.

Exquisite Dungeon, a blog written by a woman, explores her feelings regarding his prolonged denial and eventual orgasm.

One of her remarks will likely resonate with many here. It captures a mixed emotion that new KH’s often seek but struggle to describe: “There is a soulful pleading in those eyes, one that begs for permission to cum, and the at the same time, one that implores that the denial continues.”

Hopefully, men being asked “What will I get out of this?” by their KH’s will recognize an emotional benefit alongside the physical ones. You can read her complete post here;