Wankwatchers - Monthly Points

We don’t use locked chastity devices very often. I like the concept and do it sometimes, but not for long-term periods. For me, denial is definitely the most exciting part. We’ve had some really strict no-release stretches before, though longer denials make restarting more difficult. Throughout this past year, I’ve been aiming to cut down on releases without being overly harsh or too rigid about it—focusing instead on general habits. That usually means 2-4 orgasms a month, with at least half of them being ruined.

We try not to go over 8 points in total per month:

• 4 points for wanking (unruined)
• 3 points for intercourse or oral sex
• 2 points for a happy ending (HJ)
• 1 point for a ruined HJ This leaves some room to ensure I’m “connecting” with my wife, but there isn’t much extra margin left over in the rest of the month. I haven’t MB’d (masturbated) for about six months now. Also, during that same period, I’ve lost more than 20 pounds.