DarkGlass Enduring forced chastity for the long haul

My partner used to be quite traditional. While she tolerated my chastity, she didn’t feel strongly about it, viewing it as something harsh and cruel for me. She had hard limits on tools like whips and shock collars, as well as the concept of her being the keyholder. Three years later, all those hints I dropped—and eventually voiced—about my desire for forced chastity without a safeword seem to be leading us there.

My wife has kept me locked in my CS500 belt for three days now. It looks like she’ll let me out tonight since I’ve behaved well, but I’m expected to go right back into the device afterward. She’s also taken quite nicely to the shock collar I bought and has already figured out how to secure it around my testicles using one of the masterlocks.

My long-term goal is to stay in chastity indefinitely, only coming out when she decides we need sex, unless she restrains me so she can force me back in even if I genuinely don’t want to go. So far, things seem pretty sorted for this setup:

As you might know, I’m wearing a CS500 belt. If you aren’t sure what that looks like and want to see, click here.

I also bought this spin dial lock which I’ve already bolted to a load-bearing stud in our bedroom. (You know, just to make absolutely certain I can’t take it off or hack it open later if I get restless).

Next, I purchased a specific shock collar that uses what looks like a fire alarm disc to keep dogs away (hereif you want to see the model). I’ve set the radius to 12 feet and placed its fire alarm puck strategically in our basement so it blocks access to the stairs. This makes the puck unreachable while wearing the collar, effectively trapping me on the second floor of my house (It delivers progressively stronger shocks if I stay within that 12-foot hot zone until I fall down screaming…I’ve tried and tested this…)

Then came a generic pair of locking padded bondage mittens.

Essentially, all she needs to do is put the mittens and shock collar on me before removing my belt, and I literally have no way off the second floor. With the mittens on, I can’t cut or pry off the shock collar, and they are too durable for me to bite through before she has time to subdue me. I can still walk around upstairs, freely engage in any sexual positions, hug & embrace after sex, but my movement is totally confined.

All that said, I’m still trying to convince her to let me get a PA so I can have a loris #5 installed. For now though, I’m literally shaking with excitement because we’ve achieved what I consider the perfect setup for forced long term chastity. One thing I’m considering is getting a second shock collar and using nylon washers to mount one on each side of my locking ball stretcher for double protection and easier application by her. (On a side note, if I can’t ever convince her into letting me get a PA, then a long-term goal of mine is to figure out how to use a ribbon cable and a heavy duty shock collar to create a tamper proof belt, where the collar activates if the ribbon breaks. I know that sounds like pure fantasy fodder, but it’s seriously possible with just a bit more electronics knowledge than I currently have…I was actually quite surprised to see that Dreamlover never included such a feature).

As a disclaimer, I haven’t been great at keeping up with status updates, but I’m going to try and make a concerted effort to post here once in a while (maybe week/month?) about how things are progressing. I hope one day I end up in a predicament similar to that which mobico ended up on CM, or the situation sweetgirl88 has her husband in over on OD. It’s quite possible as earlier today I’d brought up giving up my safe word entirely. She said that was doable eventually.:shock: Hopefully I can remember to post about this hopeful journey of mine.

I also hope that detailing the implements of choice helps anyone else who is sure they want to lock themselves into what is just about an inescapable scenario with no way out.

(Seriously guys - spin dial lock bolted to a load bearing beam. You’d risk collapsing your house to pry it off the wall, and if mounted in a precarious position, trying to dremel it would be seriously dangerous. If you wanted to go totally nuts, you could even put a little glass vile of a corrosive substance in the box next to the key. Not naming what ones I’d use, but there’s ones that’d have a key rendered unusable before you could ever hope to finish breaking in & getting it)