Were there workable male chastity belts during the late eighties and nineties?

Where this goes next

Every thread on this board is somebody in the same few months of their life, told from different ends of it: the conversation that has not happened yet, the one that ended in tears, the drink that went well, and the weeks afterwards. The site has a page for each, and one account of an evening written while it was still fresh.

• Saying it out loud, and how it sounds from their chair
• The first meeting: a drink, all three of you
• One first evening, hour by hour