Using a Fleshlight for Teasing

A few nights ago I was discussing play time with my Keyholder (you know, the kind that keeps our dopamine levels steady) and she brought up toys for us guys. Specifically, PIV was what she had in mind, though it wasn’t quite clicking for me.

For those keeping score: we’ve worked out a compromise regarding teasing. She recently watched a video featuring a chaste husband who gets 60 seconds to try cumming inside a Toy Vagina while he’s numbed and wearing double condoms (it was pretty funny). Does anyone here use a Fleshlight or similar boys’ toy as part of their teasing routine? I’d really value the Keyholders’ input on this.