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I was getting too much self-pleasure, sometimes multiple times a day, so I researched chastity and found this site.
After reading up on devices, key holders, and denial, I decided it made sense to start with self-denial. Once I got used to the CD, I planned to hand over the keys to my partner.
I looked into device options and sizing, eventually choosing a Steelworxx Steelheart.
My penis has a 10mm PA ring, which keeps the device very secure even though I’m holding the keys myself for now. The PA fixing holds it in place well.
I received the CD yesterday and took it to work, locking myself in at 2 PM. It was a bit of a struggle because I was excited, but after waiting patiently, I managed to fit the standard 47mm ring, attach the PA fixing, and slide on the tube. Being locked in felt thrilling.
I’ve been locked for about 15 hours now and counting.
Comfort-wise, most of the time I barely notice it’s there.
This morning, while still free to adjust things without issue, I swapped out for a 45mm anatomical ring.
The tube diameter is perfect; if it had been any smaller, my dick and PA fixing wouldn’t have fit. As for length, it might be slightly too long, but it’s hard to tell because I can’t see exactly how full the tube gets. However, since the ball from my PA ring presses right up against the end of the tube, there isn’t much extra space.
I had an erection this morning. It wasn’t painful at all because my balls hang low, allowing the tube to move away from my body quite a bit (which is another reason I’m trying the smaller ring). More importantly, despite having one, I couldn’t do anything with it; there’s no way to get enough stimulation to orgasm while completely enclosed in metal because of the lack of movement inside the tube. Realizing this was pointless, I left it alone, and it subsided quickly—success!
Next up is revealing the CD to my partner.
We are a gay couple, but we’ve stopped having sex.
So him being my key holder isn’t about denying me; it’s about giving up control myself. Since there’s no regular sex, I masturbate too often and worry I might seek sexual release elsewhere.
Being locked up and denied actually makes me happy, even if it doesn’t change much for him.
That works perfectly for what I need: focus, control, and denial.