Returning to Lock with Some Changes

Hello all,

I’ve been away for a few months, but now I’m securely locked in my “Watchful Mistress” once more. It only went on five minutes ago and it feels great.

My wife and I did this arrangement for about a year back then. During that period, I rarely ejaculated and we shifted toward a marriage where she held the reins. However, at some point, male chastity just didn’t appeal to us anymore, so we chose to pause.

We used that time to slide back into a more equal partnership. We tried out various new sexual kinks—and notably, I began masturbating regularly without any negative impact on my mood. Perhaps the key was letting Melissa know when I did it; she was perfectly fine with me doing so provided she knew about it and could either see me in person or via video.

Our approach to chastity is a little different this round. Previously, everything was wife-led. Now, her leadership extends only to our bedroom activities. Outside of that, we remain equal partners. Moreover, rather than just being permitted to ask for sex or initiate it myself, I now have no say in the matter—I cannot initiate, request, hint, coax, or do anything else to seek attention. I can certainly give her attention, but receiving is entirely up to her will. This time around, it’s about embodying the fantasy of being a fully kept man dedicated to her satisfaction.

We aren’t planning to keep this on for too long. Perhaps until summer starts. We both love sex in the warm weather too much to endure another locked-up summer.

Additionally, we are considering inviting either another guy or a couple into our bed during the coming months. So yes, there’s some tension! On one hand, we enjoy male chastity; on the other, we are quite excited by the prospect of sharing ourselves. It makes sense in its own way.

Best regards, Michael