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Greetings everyone. I’ve been involved in the lifestyle for a few years now, sporting a cage during my workday. The catch is that my significant other isn’t keen on chastity or anything kinky at all. I really want to stay locked up for an extended period; we’ve talked about it, but she gave me a shocked expression and a firm refusal. Our intimate life could be better—she has a low libido, perhaps only twice monthly—and I’d like more activity. Has anyone else dealt with this? Any tips are appreciated.