Birdlocked discussion

The Birdlocked Mini gives me trouble every so often — when it’s soft, I tend to slip out. I’ve been looking for other options that can stop this from happening, like trying different silicone rings on the shaft to help circulation and keep things a bit more active (all with safety in mind). So far, nothing has worked without getting uncomfortable fast. The issue is that while it stays put when there’s some firmness, once I go soft, my member… “retracts” seems like the right word for it. It ends up almost completely outside the tube. I’ve tested this — if arousal kicks in during those moments, I don’t really slide back down into place. Has anyone found a good product that stops this?