Female led relationships discussion

Hello, We are newcomers to this lifestyle. From what I gather, it appears that most couples gradually extend the intervals between their husband’s release. I understand that you decide when and how long those gaps should be, but is there a standard progression? For example, getting him accustomed to once a week for some time before extending to perhaps three weeks? Or should we slowly increase the interval over time? Are there any downsides to increasing incrementally versus jumping straight to longer periods? Lisa