Introductions discussion

I’m new to the site and wanted to say hi and make a few comments about me and my world. I got divorced six years ago and have been looking for a suitable significant other ever since. I believe I suffer from a porn addiction, which was the main factor in my ex-wife’s decision to separate and eventually divorce us. I only wish I had discovered chastity and its benefits while we were still together. We occasionally experimented with mild bondage; I am mostly submissive, but she wasn’t particularly enthusiastic about it. She did it mainly to please me, yet knowing her heart wasn’t fully in it, my enjoyment waned until our marriage became virtually sex-free over the last couple of years, leading me to seek diversion online. Looking back, I’m sure that had she put me in chastity, I would have stayed a loyal and loving husband. The constant “bondage” of the device would have kept temptation at bay and reinforced my natural submissive instincts, allowing me to serve her as she wished. So here we are today, and I suppose I am seeking advice on how to find someone who wants to be an equal partner while holding the keys to my sexual desires. I don’t want another vanilla relationship of the usual sort. Thanks for reading. Skin. P.S. I live in Cheshire, England.