Introductions discussion

Just wanted to say hi and introduce myself. I’m 43, married and new to chastity. Not sure why, but after years of being the dominant, a few months ago I suddenly started fantasizing about being locked up by my wife. Though she’s enjoyed being the sub for our 10 years together (mostly bondage, some S/M), luckily she was open to it so I’ve been caged for a couple months now. She’s enjoyed it as much as I have. It’s been impressive how naturally she’s come by her new role as a KH. She totally gets the orgasm denial, teasing, etc. She’s come once or more, daily, since we started by oral, vibrator, strap-on, etc. I’ve been in a CB-6000 24/7 with releases (and orgasms) every few days. It’s been pretty comfortable and almost fully secure. Unfortunately, I can pull-out with some effort (though I can’t get back in and I can’t get my balls out). Even though I haven’t cheated, just knowing I could pull out has reduced some of the thrill because I really want to be locked beyond my control. So a couple days ago, I took the plunge and got a P.A. piercing and ordered a Steelwerks Extreme cage with the P.A. lock. By the time it arrives in a few weeks, I hope to be healed enough to begin using it. I think she was a little concerned that things might drop off since I got pierced but so far, that hasn’t been a problem. I’ve continued to provide her orgasms while I anxiously await the ability to come again - and soon enough, be fully locked. Hope this hasn’t been too long. Cheers, Jim