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I am curious about other people and their experiences as they move through a new session of chastity.

Mine typically goes like this: Day 1: Super excited, nervous. I usually do not sleep very well, as the combo of being turned on, the cage and nighttime erections keep me up or wake me up several times.

Day 3: This is the first time when I start to question my chastity status, and often when I most want to get out or “regret” my decision.

Day 7-8: Usually around this point, I feel like a boat that has enough speed and momentum to plane. It gets tremendously easier; I sleep through the night by this point, am constantly horny but used to the cage, and start forgetting about it during daily activities.

Week 3 is when I get milked, and every third week after that. I actually look forward to milking as it becomes my primary personal sexual activity. That includes other ass play too. Once in the rhythm of milking, I find the highs and lows of sexual intensity mellow out—the peaks aren’t so high and the troughs aren’t so low.

Behaviorally, this is when I really slip into a more submissive space. It feels less like going up and down and more like floating along. My everyday interactions, especially with women, become much more about leaving them feeling better about themselves (“nice blouse” or some other compliment) than focused on getting what I need quickly or addressing my self-centered needs as before. Regardless of gender, I become much more focused on wanting them to smile when our interaction is over.

I always try to live life giving more than taking, listening more than talking, trying to be humble and understand and appreciate all the beauty that is our humanity. I find that being locked up helps me avoid those hormonal highs and lows, making me a more consistent and better human being. When not locked up, I do not ‘man-struate’ as badly; emotionally, I crash every 90 days or so.

Some people think all men should be locked up. I believe the world would be a much more peaceful place.

At this point in the session, I achieve a sense of peace and continuity. It is not such a struggle; it just is what it is.

Every couple of months, I may have a rabid few hours of frustration, but after milking and focusing my energy inward, I am able to get back to that awesome place where I just float.

How does it go for you and yours?