Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’m on day eight now of being locked and I’m dripping constantly. Nothing’s worse than night-time though - particularly if my wife geared me up before sleep. I leak like crazy - it’s annoying. I typically shove kleenex in the end of my CB-6000 but lately that just seems to make the fluid leak out the holes in the side or come up through the top (where the penis slides in). Yuck. It’s a freaking mess. I assume it’s not going to get any better. Others that have been locked for a while must have experienced this as well. Any suggestions? Side story: Last night before bed I asked my wife when she was thinking I could get out next. She said that Sunday night for a shower. I must have had a look in my eye because she said “But I don’t want you cheating on your promise.” I said “Ok I understand (not really …).” After about a minute, I screwed up the courage and asked her when I could next have an orgasm. She said that it would be when I went on my next trip - eight days away and that seemed like a reasonable time. I meekly just shook my head and agreed and awkwardly said “Ok honey it’s just that I’m so very horny right now”. She said “Yeah, well, you need to get used to it.” Is it any damn wonder I was tossing and turning last night? It’s taking all that I have to encourage this dominance from her (she’s historically been very vanilla) and not demand that she take the thing off immediately. I’m not because she is pretty set on enforcing the chastity these days and has told me that arguing will get me more time. Plus I know (and she tells me this) that if I get out, I will only want back in after a few weeks (which is one of the reasons she has told me that she is going to give me what I want because she doesn’t want to have me pester her again about it).