Introductions discussion

Hello I am new to this…I live in southern california and I am a single man in my forties. This fantasy has been on my mind for quite some time. A friend is likely to become the keyholder, even though we aren’t officially together yet. My grower status means those plastic Lori’s devices don’t fit me well, so while I was planning to get one of theirs, I went ahead and ordered a different device instead. Hopefully the wait isn’t too long and it fits okay. Since I have no desire for feminization, I am eager to learn more about this specific kink and what being in chastity entails…just wanted to say “hi”