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Hello everyone, It all began about three months ago when I first mentioned to my wife that I wanted her to put me in chastity. This is something I’ve desired for a couple of years now. So, I took the leap and asked if she would be open to it. Lately, I’ve been getting too much self-pleasure time (using my hand)! She always seemed to know exactly what I was up to when I got home from work.

I brought this issue to her by saying, “I owe you the respect of having total control over my orgasms from now on,” as a way to break the ice. She agreed to try it. However, I feel like she might see it just another little fetish I have and perhaps I’ll outgrow it eventually.

I’ve given her books to read so she can research this lifestyle more deeply, but honestly, I think she couldn’t care less. She’s content that I can no longer masterbate on my own, yet she doesn’t want to spend time learning about the details of this life. I keep telling her, “You call the shots now!” I have handed over total control.

It seems like things aren’t changing much though! I’ve been in and out of chastity for three weeks so far, and she lets me hold the key whenever she wants. My new contract started on July 31st, and I’ll be locked up for a month. I just need some feedback on how to get it across to her that she truly has all the control!

Thanks, tater891