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I’ve discovered I can bring myself to orgasm without physically touching my penis at all; it happens purely through mental focus and specific muscle control. While I don’t suffer from premature ejaculation, I do struggle with the fact that if I get too aroused, I end up having one of these hands-free orgasms. It’s not permitted, yet I can’t seem to prevent it. I can keep my hands off (which is crucial since I’m not locked), but the moment I start to get excited, the thought of needing to stop actually increases my arousal, creating a cycle that ends in ejaculation. It doesn’t occur every time, but it seems to happen about once a week.
Has anyone else experienced this? I’m searching for a way to manage it. My fiancée has punished me by withholding the dice roll for next week (we usually roll on Sundays to decide if I get any play at all and whether I can come during the week), but I doubt that will prevent another incident. She is hesitant about me being locked, but if this continues, perhaps a spiked device would serve as a better deterrent? Do they provide enough of a shock to prevent someone from getting that close? I’m not sure a standard device would work either, as my cock doesn’t become fully erect in the underwear I currently wear anyway.
I’d welcome any thoughts on the matter.