Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone in the community. I recently signed up and want to share a bit about my background. My wife Jane and I have been together for more than three decades, and I reside around the clock wearing a Lori chastity tube with a frenum piercing. Here is my narrative, originally shared on Altairboy’s site several years ago:

I first encountered my spouse during our college days and was immediately drawn to her. Jane proved to be an appealing, determined, and competent partner who was also warm and entertaining in those early times. We cherished being together back then, and she demonstrated a love and respect for me that I now view through the lens of memory. Our time spent largely as a pair during university made it clear to all: if she agreed to wed me, I would be fortunate.

Jane was unique because I felt able to trust her completely with my secrets. Soon after, I grew confident enough to open up about my deepest desires. Having always been drawn to bondage and women who take charge, I started voicing these preferences to Jane, hoping she would lead and control me as the powerful figures in my dreams did. For a long time, however, it seemed she didn’t fully grasp or prioritize this submissive side of mine, preferring not to dominate.

Yet, driven by stubborn hope that one day Jane would evolve into the Alpha-Female Dominant Mistress I envisioned, I kept pushing my luck. This persistence eventually led me down a path toward chastity, which I see as a profound gesture of loyalty and surrender. After testing various DIY contraptions over time, it became clear that for me to be truly secure against escape, the device needed to anchor directly through a piercing in my penis.

I had proposed getting pierced multiple times, but Jane was usually firm in her refusal. Still unable to abandon my quirks, I went ahead and did it years ago without consulting her first. Her reaction? She was quite cross that I altered our body in what she might have deemed strange or repulsive at the time. Ironically, despite her initial dislike of piercings, this choice is exactly why I am now hopelessly bound to her.

Today, with my penis secured through the piercing and locked into a chastity tube that offers no way out, I remain constantly confined. The lock mechanism is high-security and resistant to picking. It fits so tightly against my skin that having it cut off with a saw seems nearly impossible. Moreover, if I tried to flee now, Jane would be absolutely livid.

Yes, truly livid. Her insistence on keeping me chastised at all times seals my fate. She has witnessed the transformation bondage and confinement have wrought in me. Once vocal and prone to argument, often drinking freely whenever the mood struck me along with other minor vices, I’ve become a quiet, obedient servant whose independent thoughts are few, existing primarily to serve his Mistress.

Jane won’t tolerate any deviation from this arrangement, nor does she hesitate to enforce it. My transition into total slavery solidified shortly after I started wearing the device, particularly following harsh punishment for direct disobedience. In a moment of lapse in judgment—perhaps underestimating how strict my new role would be—I consumed alcohol without her say-so. Upon smelling it on my breath, she was enraged and made sure I paid dearly for misunderstanding our dynamic. After enduring weeks

of sexual denial, I was given additional chores, which I must still perform to this day. After that, i realized there will be severe consequences for disobeying my Wife. i tend to think of her more as my Mistress now, who i must not anger. She too, probably thinks of me more as a houseboy now, than a husband, and my life mainly consists of doing things that will please Her. Here is what a typical morning is like for me now. If it sounds meticulous, it is because i must perform the same never-ending tasks every morning, rain or shine, workday or day off. Up at 6:30 AM Turn off the ceiling fan, close the window next to Her bed. Feed the cats. (I don’t particularly care for cats, but we have 5) Go downstairs, set the thermostat. Make coffee, empty the dishwasher. Bring Miss Jane her coffee. Greet Her Good Morning and recite the outside temperature. Don’t linger by her bedside as she will become annoyed. Clean the kitchen while She gets dressed, usually in workout clothes as she works out religiously each day. Go back upstairs, get dressed for work, make the bed, put Her clothes and shoes away. Tidy Her dresser, clean the bedroom, bathroom and do a load of wash if necessary. Walk and feed the dog. All before i go to work, to earn money for Her. i have learned to take pleasure in doing these things for Her, knowing that I am fulfilling my purpose in life. She is my total priority. As long as I am doing everything to Her satisfaction, my Mistress Wife is pleased, and allows me sexual release every 3 or 4 days. However, there is little emotion involved on Her part. Often i am made to masturbate in front of her. If She decides to allow intercourse i am urged to go about my business quickly while she berates me and calls me a “fool” and a “loser”. After which, my penis is promptly and securely locked up again. There is no hope of escape or breaking this routine. Before my chastity tube is removed, Jane locks a steel chain around my neck like a dog collar. She secures it with a numbered lock. No keys for me to find. The collar is not removed until my penis is safely back in its steel prison. And so my life is totally in Her hands now. I think that my favorite part of the day is the few seconds of tender kissing and rubbing that she sometimes gives me as she leaves for her morning workout. It is the time when I feel most the way I used to feel in the early days of our relationship, the days when Jane loved and respected me. That wasn’t enough for me though. I had to have my sexual fantasies. Well I got my wish. No longer the object of her love, i belong now, like a pet, to the strong, sexy Alpha-Female that my Wife has become. In addition to her dominant personality, she has never looked better in her life. Her constant workouts have given her a muscular and well toned physique and, when she is wearing something revealing, i find it hard to look at Her without becoming aroused, and she knows it. There’s no use in lamenting about the way things used to be. I know that there will be no changing my role in Her life now. She knows all of my weaknesses and keeps me totally under her thumb. I have accepted that she knows what i need, better than i do myself, and how to treat me. We have been married for 37 years now, and i am grateful to be Her servant, but will never be anything more again. We live in NJ. Will be out of town for a week. Looking forward to it. Flying means i am out of my cage… till we return home, i’m sure. Will post a photo down the road. Speakdogg

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