Introductions discussion

Greetings to all the lovely members of this vibrant board, which I stumbled upon yesterday. My husband and I are married, and we’ve been exploring our sexual dynamics for about four years now … it feels like we have finally found where we belong. We’ve had plenty of great moments, though unfortunately not without a few hiccups. I act as the domina, and also somewhat as a hotwife… and my husband has turned out to be an incredibly willing and satisfying servant. A couple of months back I stumbled upon male-chastity - it’s such a beautiful concept, and I’ve discussed this idea with him at length. Initially he was rather skeptical - worried about being locked up and losing his cherished orgasms. That isn’t my intention at all - quite the opposite - It would be lovely to let him build anticipation and reward him with a truly spectacular orgasm for pleasing me so well (as often as I can manage) The sight of a caged cock is simply one of the most delightful sights I’ve ever seen… it’s so tempting to play with and tease - I have a soft spot for metal cages, just like those from mature metal - they’re stunning. We were fortunate enough to test a metal cage in a local shop - (with a wrap around the penis), unfortunately it didn’t fit very well - we were quite let down - but the hinge immediately irritated his skin; he wore it for only about 10 seconds.:-( So that particular device wasn’t right for us - I’m so relieved we got to try it on first - otherwise, it would have been a true waste of cash. I’ve spent countless hours browsing online for different types of chastity devices - I’m not particularly fond of metal belts, although they mostly receive excellent rewievs from users. Since this is our inaugural attempt - and my husband remains somewhat hesitant - I believe I’ve settled on either the BON4 or a Birdlocked - I lean towards the BON4 because I can take off the cage while leaving the ring in place during play; alternatively, I could just loosen the birdlocked and twist it around so it hangs freely…it’s frustrating - I’d love to test them all and see which suits us best!!! I need easy access to his cock, and it must be simple to put on and take off each morning for showering. My primary worry is that he has a significant amount of foreskin when flaccid - not just covering the glans, but quite a bit more hanging down - and he needs to manage this while using the toilet. And be able to clean himself afterwards without too much trouble or discomfort. It’s been so educational reading all the fantastic rewievs in this forum - but unfortunately, it hasn’t made the decision any simpler. My goal is for him to grow to love chastity - and hopefully convert him into a metal-cage user at some point:-D Let’s see how things go - now I just need to decide which device to start with. Miss Foxy