Introductions discussion

Hi everyone. I’m more curious than anything else about the chastity lifestyle here. I suppose in my personal history I’ve been a bit of an Alpha Male, but now I’m a happy vanilla husband. Our sex life is creative, though based on what I’ve read so far, we’re probably not tooooo wild. I support sexually strong-willed women and think that for males who are selfish lovers or have strayed, the idea of some training makes perfect sense. However, it would be nice if guys could improve without being locked up.

I’m not into cuckolding for various reasons. I don’t feel so good about how I acted post a bad marital relationship going bottoms-up—revenge sex, I suppose, hence that Alpha Male tag. Fantasy-wise, though, it’s different at least. The males seeking to be feminized and shot full of female hormones while undergoing full-time sexual denial and chastity make me wonder what’s going on in their heads. Is this lots of guilt and real transexuality? In some cases, I think that might be true. Or is it all just a very extreme fetish? I don’t know, but it’s very interesting. My only experience with Bondage was with a girl who was very horny but felt a lot of guilt over her needs; she wanted to be tied up so it wasn’t her “fault.” As cute as she was, this didn’t do anything for me and I opted out of that scene.

Ok, I’m sure this is boring the heck out of everyone…

> Jimi123 said: > The males seeking to be feminized and shot full of female hormones while going through full time sexual denial and chastity make me wonder whats going on in their heads. Is this lots of guilt and real transexuality? I think in some cases that might be true. Or is it all just a very extreme fetish? > Click to expand... I'm not sure what point you're trying to make, but I can assure you I'm quite sane. I suppose you didn't mean anything by your comment, but I found it mildly offensive. I choose to be feminized as an outlet for my feminine feelings. To call it an extreme fetish is a bit presumptuous also, at least for me; it is more of a release, and I often feel more comfortable rather than horny. Perhaps if you're curious, you should read some of the very in-depth threads and diaries that are here.