Introductions discussion

To start off, I am a submissive cuckold husband married to my wife for two decades. We tied the knot early at age 19 and lived a vanilla life until recently. Changes in our circumstances let both of us uncover our hidden desires and authentic selves, leading us into a Femdom lifestyle whenever possible. I recently gifted her a CB_3000 for her birthday as well. She had always been somewhat curious about chastity before, but with this thoughtfully designed device now, she (and I) are truly enjoying it. Because my job is physically demanding, I can’t wear the lock during the workweek. However, I am locked in all weekend long and even during weekdays if my wife has a date scheduled. I do have one question though. Finding the perfect fit requires some time and experimentation, but I’ve noticed that I need two different configurations for night versus day. During daylight hours, it needs to be tighter, while at night, I believe a looser fit is better. Those nighttime “attempted” erections are driving me crazy!! Is this typical? We hope to eventually wear the device 24/7 when our schedules permit. Will those nocturnal torture sessions gradually ease up? The setup that works best for me right now uses the second smallest Ring with a small spacer positioned closest to my body, along with the small teeth. I tried medium-sized teeth before, but getting an erection with them was extremely painful. They aren’t ideal for long-term wear, but they are quite fun during play sessions. In fact, I just received word that next weekend at the BDSM play party we’re attending, I must install those pesky medium teeth into my chastity device. I look forward to a life filled with submission and chastity.