Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone. I want to present myself to this group. At 38 years old, I am married and have been wearing a cage since yesterday with my wife’s permission, residing in France. Currently using a CB6000. My best friend is letting me borrow his older model cage. He also gave me a BirdLocked device, though I haven’t tried it yet! He has likely been practicing chastity for around a year (I think so; he can verify) and persuaded me to give it a shot. My main worry is that I struggle to avoid masturbation, and this cage looks like an excellent way to break those bad habits. I’m not looking into anything else currently, but circumstances may change, who knows:) Initially, I joined this site mainly to keep an eye on my friend because secretly I hoped one day to share intimacy with him (we actually attempted that 20 years ago and he turned me down). Recently, we have discussed it often, and as our relationship has grown stronger and trust deepened between us, he opened up and let me into his world. I now hold great respect for him because it took real courage to share what he did with me. And I am ready to try chastity myself and see how well it can enhance my daily life with my lovely wife. Right now, she is not very enthusiastic about the idea. She completely rejected the notion of me wearing a cage yesterday, but after a lengthy talk, she finally agreed to let me wear one. Since our third child was born roughly two years ago, things have gotten quite busy in our bedroom life. We even went through a year-long break from sex. I hope we can enjoy a more playful and intense sexual relationship, and it seems chastity is an excellent path toward that goal, provided both partners are on board. If you have any advice or personal experiences to share regarding this matter, they will be warmly welcome:)