Chastity device reviews discussion

I’ve gone through the reviews but I’m still a bit unsure. I plan to purchase a chastity device within the next week or so, yet I can’t decide which one to pick. Right now, my preference leans toward the Extreme model, however… I am not especially large in size and I desire something that leaves absolutely no room for me to touch myself—I don’t want any part sticking out through the opening. It needs to completely block off any type of erection and be utterly unescapable. The higher the hygiene level, the better; I’d prefer not to have to remove it constantly just to wash—there’s too great a risk of playing around. Also, I doubt my wife will enjoy supervising me while I clean. Furthermore, I don’t want to break the bank on price. Living in San Francisco makes me strongly prefer something manufactured right here in the USA. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated. Richard