Introductions discussion

During my introduction in the Foyer section of a prior post, I explained how my husband and I stumbled upon chastity almost accidentally. I purchased a CB 3000 primarily for amusement, assuming it would be used mostly by her to add some variety to our intimacy, likely reserved mainly for weekends.

However, she has really grown fond of the device and now appears to want me locked in constantly! Considering we started this journey six weeks ago, I have only been out of the lock perhaps four days total. I am currently entering my second period lasting over a week without release. While that might not seem like much to some here, I genuinely wonder how you manage it.

This outcome is definitely different from what I expected. She has fully accepted the dynamic of control. For me personally, the initial days are quite manageable. But after another couple of days pass, my thoughts turn toward sex (which has been wonderful by the way), and I begin making advances. This often results in nights where I attend to her needs, followed by receiving a kiss—or being kissed away—before she turns over and falls asleep quickly. I don’t mind that part at all; deriving pleasure and satisfaction from pleasing her feels good because I do love her deeply. Yet, as the week draws to a close, I feel desperate for intercourse myself. It seems we are both ready for it, but twice now the opportunity has been missed, leaving me empty-handed because my hands are tied!

Take last weekend as an example: I fulfilled all my duties diligently. I made the bed, washed the dishes, went grocery shopping, and prepared a delightful dinner on Saturday night complete with wine and candles.

Afterward, I kissed her everywhere selflessly and passionately. She reached climax more times than we could count. Once again, I received the affectionate goodnight kiss or was dismissed politely. On Sunday morning, it became clear she desired me further. Her mood was excellent as she told me that receiving what she wanted only increased her appetite! This optimism held until mid-afternoon when a specific irritation caused my temper to flare and my voice to rise for about fifteen seconds. That triggered the shift; she became annoyed, the atmosphere changed, and I knew frustration awaited me in bed.

By Monday, her anger lingered. Mine was also present, which she sensed but perhaps didn’t fully grasp regarding its intensity. And there lies the crux of the matter. This arrangement doesn’t quite feel like fun anymore. I never agreed to surrender all authority permanently. Nevertheless, if this is what she desires, I am willing to grant her that wish.

So my inquiry is: Am I complaining too much or are my worries justified? If she intends for me to remain in this state 24/7, should I accept it on her behalf? And will the absence of control and sexual denial become more bearable as time passes? Furthermore, what happens if this situation persists for a long duration? How do you handle it?

Thank you for any guidance.