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My wife used to spank me when I’m touching my penis, with or without my cage, but that is a sexual spanking; it gets her horny.
But now I want her to spank me hard when I’ve been bad and done something wrong. Like an old-fashioned spanking that has nothing to do with sex. And I want the spanking to hurt and not bring any pleasure at all for me, just pure punishment. But I don’t know how to tell her this; I’m worried she’ll think I might use it as a excuse whenever I want a spanking. If I consciously misbehave, she has to spank me. So I have to get her to understand that I won’t always play that card.
Do you have any good suggestions and advice?