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For the majority of our marriage, my wife has been in charge of every part of our sexual relationship. We only engage in intercourse when she decides it’s time, and I’m not allowed to ask or nag her about it. Typically, we have sex once a month (occasionally twice), following an extended period of foreplay that focuses primarily on her. I originally proposed wearing a chastity device because of my tendency to masturbate too much. Although my wife initially agreed, she didn’t feel quite at ease with me keeping it on all the time. She appreciates my submission but doesn’t want to take an active role in managing my chastity herself. Our compromise is that I wear my CB6KS during daytime hours—whether I’m at work, home, or elsewhere—with the key left in the bedside drawer so I can’t masturbate while awake. In the evenings, I remove the cage but must strictly avoid masturbation unless given permission. Our last sexual encounter was on Christmas Eve when she felt a bit more playful; it’s now been nearly two months since then, and I suspect my wife is putting me to the test. I also want to mention that over these past two months, my wife and I have shared plenty of intimacy through lots of cuddling, caressing, and kissing. Thanks