Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

“When we first began our 24/7 chastity routine a few months back, my wife—practical by nature as she is a nurse—wanted to make sure I had an emergency key ready in case she wasn’t there with hers. Her worry grew once I switched to the steel Bon4m model, because it couldn’t be easily opened without that specific tool.

We considered using numbered plastic locks similar to those provided with CB series devices, but retailers selling BDSM gear were charging quite a bit for them. However, after some searching online, I discovered that WWGrainger sells plain, numbered plastic security tags for under 3 cents each. They slip through the pin hole in the Bon4m perfectly fine, though they are just a touch small, allowing enough wiggle room to cause slight pinching.

With a bit of creative thinking, I developed a method that meets my wife’s peace-of-mind requirements while keeping me securely locked up. We now use these tags to secure the key to an immovable object in our home (and similarly attach one to a luggage tie-down point in the car). There is no way for me to reach either key without snapping the tag, yet I always have access if necessary. Because the tags are so cheap, my wife doesn’t hesitate to break one open and use the key when she’s feeling playful or wants to tease. Since these security tags can be removed by hand without tools, an emergency wouldn’t require me to hunt down scissors or a knife. Having one in the vehicle adds another layer of assurance that help is available whenever it might be needed.

I wanted to share this tip with everyone here for anyone else who might be looking for a similar solution.”