Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I don’t usually share much of what I go through here unless people are asking for info in their posts, but as my wife and I pick up more experience with edging, I wanted to pass along a few observations to see if they hit home for anyone else. There is this moment when I am right on the brink of climax and she halts her stimulation only to begin again; at that point the sensations feel incredibly intense throughout my whole body, and once I get into that zone, it seems like I remain there while she continues teasing and pulling back. She doesn’t have to keep pushing me right up to the limit… I just stay as a trembling, moaning wreck.

During one of these sessions yesterday, I had what was truly my first ruined orgasm, which turned out slightly different than I anticipated. When I felt myself getting very near, I let her know and she stopped moving, but some semen managed to leak out from me. There wasn’t any sensation of climax at all, nor any relief. She kept teasing me on, and I stayed hard for another half hour after that. It was quite fascinating. We decided not to count it as a proper orgasm regarding my daily tally.