Introductions discussion

I’m new here. My wife and I both enjoy chastity. It’s not always her favorite, but she likes it more often than not. Her main issue is that she absolutely loves having my penis inside her. HOWEVER, she has realized something: when I am locked up, she actually gets a lot more orgasms. Essentially, before this, I was kind of cheating on her with my hand. My wife is very goal-driven. When she feels horny, she wants relief. Then she turns over (just like a guy). I spend time pleasuring her through other means (without penetration), and she loves it. But when it’s my turn, she pretty much just takes the penis into her to get off. She finishes first—I’m a gentleman—but once I finish too, we are both done. For me, foreplay is simply getting my penis ready for action. She knows I want more than quick sex. I crave attention similar to what I give her. So we have been experimenting with chastity. The mission is keeping her focus (and mine) away from the penis. I am enjoying being locked up. As of today, the longest time without an orgasm has been about 8 days. It hasn’t been that long since I learned how to jerk off when I was younger. I’m starting to notice changes physically. Today she penetrated my backside using a strap-on, then a dildo, and finally her hand (which isn’t new for someone in chastity). She has taken me up the ass before while locked, but this time I ‘came’ inside a condom. Milkings aren’t unfamiliar—I have squirted quite a bit in the past when she went down on my butt. This time what came out was ejaculate. Sperm. In previous instances it had mostly been just urine. I think being locked for such a long period (for me) meant my balls were full, leading to that sperm release. At least that’s my theory. Regardless of the cause, I enjoyed every bit of it. We aren’t looking for playmates and we don’t care much about sissy or cuck dynamics. I respect those who do their thing though. Good luck to them. Live well. I’m hoping to get some advice from others in similar situations. My goals are helping myself and my wife find pleasure beyond just the penis. She has already admitted she likes having me locked up. The question is whether this arrangement works for both of us. Devices: First I tried a plastic device (CB-6000), then switched to steel (Bon4M). I prefer the steel, though I likely need some significant adjustments for long-term wear.