Chastity device discussions and reviews discussion

I am Junior Morris, born in 1969. To give some background: I am 46 years old and have been a cuckold for roughly eight years. After our child was born, my wife lost interest in sex; after a while, she stopped allowing me to finish inside her, permitting only oral contact. Since my wife has always had a dominant nature and I a submissive one, I agreed with the arrangement. We remained without children for about 10 years, and during that time we frequented an SM club where she acted as domina and I as slave. It progressed to the point where I became a man accustomed to wearing CBT. Some time after our daughter’s birth, my wife asked me to wear a cage again; having been used to slavery before, I agreed initially for a short period, then was told one year would suffice, but each wet dream added another month. Eventually, I emerged from the cage after eighteen months and spent about two months with our neighbor, a single woman roughly 15 years my senior. Thereafter, she set her mind to it: five years is what she wanted, so be it. Some months ago, she organized a celebration for the fifth anniversary of this arrangement. It was quite amusing for the women but less so for me; however, as an old slave, I understood. The main event occurred on a warm, sunny Saturday with about 15 guests, mostly women, some accompanied by their own cuckolded husbands. This group included two neighboring women (one with her husband), sisters, sisters-in-law, and my wife’s female friends along with two of their men. I had to serve them while another man stood naked beside me; he merely shaved, whereas I already had laser hair removal starting from the 21st day post-birth and was circumcised. After dinner, I was secured on a pile before the sun loungers where they were seated. A sister-in-law of my sister, who is a doctor, was hired to handle me. She removed the cage, and I had to masturbate in front of everyone, which took considerable time to produce just a few drops of sperm after such a long period. Then there was a vote on what should happen next: remain caged for life or choose something else. Three-quarters voted for chastity until age 65, but they offered me the option of neutering. Naturally, I chose the extra 19 years. The celebration continued with various forms of teasing that ended with some good knee strikes to my balls; given my SM experiences from years ago, I could have handled it easily enough. While screaming on the ground, I was carried to my wife’s bed and tied by hand and foot. Then the hired sister-in-law (a doctor) began needling my scrotum for a long while—perhaps more than 30 times through my balls. After the festivities, I remained caged and suffered significant pain for over a month. Now, some months later, with constant thought and research online, I have decided to pursue castration—not just as fantasy. The question now is that there is little information available on where one can go to achieve this freely in countries that allow it among castrated men worldwide. I read that it might be possible in Asia, but exactly where and how does the process work??? So please tell me where and how; if you prefer, contact my private email rather than posting publicly here because of restrictions on this practice in Europe. Thank you, JR Morris