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Greetings! I prefer to steer clear of drama… but I suppose when someone hints that something (somewhat) contentious is on the horizon…!!! I want to offer an objective take on what feels like my current ‘impression’ of this community. Naturally, I ABSOLUTELY LOVE being here!!! I am a total chastity enthusiast! And by my very nature as a man under lock, I tend to be somewhat ‘submissive’. I also notice that many of the ladies (and occasionally men!) who actively contribute here are naturally ‘dominant’… Now… these labels are quite ‘broad’… but then again, so is the scope of my post… I am submissive, yet only towards one specific individual… my wife. Similarly, I view the dominant ladies (and gentlemen!) as truly dominant… over their respective partner(s). So, what I’m aiming for without being confrontational is this: It seems there’s a current sentiment where ‘submissive’ men are ‘anticipated’ (for lack of a better term) to show submission towards ALL women on the platform… And that ‘dominant’ women are ‘expected’ (as noted above) to exert dominance over ALL men. A sort of mutual ‘roleplay’… It’s tricky to explain this clearly in writing without vocal tone being audible… But I truly RESPECT everyone here. And I firmly believe manners matter. Therefore, I won’t blindly bow down to any ‘dominant’ figure on the site, nor do I expect them to try and ‘overpower’ me (unless they are my wife!) I also don’t require anyone else to be submissive towards me. I view this place as an equal playing field for discussing Chastity… Not a spot where we should simply be ‘labeled’ into fixed roles of ‘dominant’ or ‘submissive.’ And I ‘sense’ that some labeling is happening around here… This remark might ruffle a few feathers… even though no offense is meant. I’m not targeting anyone specific, regardless of their stance… I’m just articulating my perception in light of my intuition regarding the nature of posts circulating lately… I will keep respecting everyone I meet on this site, and hope to receive that same courtesy in return. And generally speaking, I UNDERSTAND!!! But, I suppose, I would want everyone to ‘EXPECT’ it as well… Anyway… we shall see how things unfold… As always… With the warmest regards. J.