Introductions discussion

I have been fascinated by chastity play for about 25 years. My first exposure to male chastity devices and what got me hooked was a copy of the old Centurions Slave Piercing magazine (what later got renamed Forced Womanhood). The idea of wearing a cage on my penis excited me (as did the forced feminization aspect which has been a longtime fantasy). I have dabled in chastity stories and websites but never made the leap into buying one for myself, mainly because until recently they have been priced out of my range.

In the meantime I have since gotten married and become a father, but due to medical issues, I have had problems with erectile dysfunction. I can only maintain an erection when I lay on my back; if I try to get on top, my erection quickly fades. Even then it is not always firm and because of that, by the time I am erect enough for sex, I don’t last long. This has led to a lot of dissatisfaction for my wife. Usually I use a dildo on her along with my fingers, bringing her to as many orgasms as she wants before and after I cum. Sadly this is not enough for my wife who wants to be penetrated from behind, rather than ride me. She has struggled with this dissatisfaction for years. Finally it came to a head and we struggled to find a solution.

We talked divorce, but we love each other intensely and need each other and want to stay together. She wanted to just stay together for the kids while she took on lovers. She wanted a divorce so she could have sex with others but preferred to remain married in all other respects. We went round and round but eventually decided to stay married, but allow her to take lovers. I had long held chastity and cuckold fantasies, so we decided to give it a try. I ordered a CB600s from Amazon (one of the cheap Chinese knock offs) and it arrived very quickly (I ordered from a company that ships from near where I live instead of shipping directly from China).

Last Wednesday my wife took her first lover. He had an average sized penis, about the same size as me, and he fucked her hard in the way she needed. He used a condom (one of our rules) and when she got home she told me all about it while I ate her pussy. Thursday my chastity device arrived and we immediately put it on. It took a few adjustments, but it was quite comfortable. She met with a second lover in the afternoon, a black guy with a big cock, her first encounter with a black man. He was very gentle, which left her a bit disappointed. We weren’t able to be alone after she got home so I had to wait to eat her out again. Later that night she met up with her first lover once more. Again he fucked her hard and rough, choking her and spanking her. When she came back in, I ate her pussy again but this time she was satiated from her multiple fucks.

Friday, while I was still locked away, her first lover came over in the afternoon. The plan was for me to watch her get penetrated, but he was nervous with me being there, so I went into the other room while they did it. Unfortunately I didn’t realize my wife wanted me to come back in once he started fucking her. She came into the room where I was sitting carrying the used condom, and told me she had wanted me to watch. I disposed of the condom and then her lover left. I ate her pussy again later. That night she went out with her black lover again. She instructed him to be rough and said she wouldn’t break, so he fucked her hard in several positions. She loved it. When she got home I performed oral on her as she recounted the experience. She let me out of my lock for the night, giving permission for me to jerk off and cum (not a long period being locked up by any means but we are just getting started making sure the belt is adjusted right).

Saturday she was sore and I found I missed the feeling of being confined in the cage. I told my wife this and she instructed me to lock myself back up. She didn’t have any hookups Saturday, but she did talk to a couple that she has known for a long time about possibly hooking up with them both while I watched (she has never shown any bi tendencies before, but is blossoming sexually since this lifestyle change began).

She is now talking about hooking up with a third guy this afternoon. It has been an exciting few days to say the least. I don’t know where we are going, but it is scarey and exciting.