Female led relationships discussion

I’ve been into chastity for roughly fifteen years. About ten years back, I admitted to myself that I wanted to be locked up, and eight years ago I bought a CB3000. My wife is aware of the device but hasn’t shown much interest in it. Since my previous rings broke, I picked up an eBay Birdlocked Pico. I don’t wear it all the time; mostly when she’s out. I’ve realized over the last couple of years that I haven’t been showing enough interest in our relationship.