Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I just returned from the first major gathering I went to while having to stay locked. In the end, I found myself chatting in a small circle with one other guy and five women. It was surprising that I completely forgot about being confined until I climbed into my car for the trip back. This made me reflect on how well I’ve adapted to this new way of living. At the same time, it sparked some anxiety regarding what my wife will expect going forward. She actually got upset because I used a plastic lock after showering rather than the metal one she keeps with her keys. My logic was that if removal became necessary, plastic would be more convenient. Suddenly, she’s worried about me stealing an orgasm in someone else’s restroom. Even though she could have noted down the lock’s serial number, she still feels it is too simple to slip out of using a plastic one. For anyone new who wonders how long until your wife fully embraces chastity: if you stay steady and let her take charge, it will come.