Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Does anyone practice domestic discipline alongside chastity? My wife doesn’t extend my time in cage when she’s annoyed because it is already long, and by the time I am due for release, she has forgotten why she was mad so nothing happens. Instead she grabbed a paddle and started giving me corporal correction. Now I get about 25-50 swats on the butt if I bug her about sex or my cage status. I also will be disciplined for forgetting to do any of my household chores more than once. I forgot to bring in the newspaper two days in a row so tonight, after dinner, I will be naked under my apron as I clean up and my wife will administer the punishment as I wash the dishes. I am into this when I am sexually aroused but when she does it like that, it is pure pain, no pleasure. She knows how to keep it from exciting me. Anyone else into DD? It seems to work well with chastity for us. Plus it helps our marriage. In the past if I did something she did not like, she would brood about it for days and I had no clue that I did anything wrong. Similarly, if I hurt her in any way, I would stew about it for days feeling sorry but unable to do much about it. Now I am punished. She gets it out of her system and I feel forgiveness. This way, it is over and done with quickly with no silent treatment or resentment.