Female led relationships discussion

Preface: Before anyone jumps in to describe me as a naughty, cheating sub, I want to be clear: my wife has approved and applauded this observation of mine. She is the only master for me. She laughed quite heartily when I shared my little insight with her:

Before entering this chastity lifestyle, I had what I consider a very standard male approach. When I saw an unfamiliar but attractive woman, I would start talking to her. Like most men, soon after that brief encounter, my innate urge to conquer, possess, and penetrate took over… wondering how it felt to take her… Men do things this way; sorry about that… Always centering themselves on the stage. “The penetrator is loose!” - you know the type;-)

Just a couple of days ago, I had another such encounter with a lovely lady at the opening of one of my interior design projects in a health clinic. She was very impressed, and I sensed it wasn’t just about my work. That’s where the male ego steps up to the plate;-) - and starts drifting down the “Penetrator” lane…

But suddenly, I realized my mind was taking a totally different path. I imagined serving her instead of conquering her. To please her,- it never crossed my mind that I needed to penetrate or take her… Even while my mind spun on its own, I felt completely converted. There is no more room for portraying myself as “the powerful penetrator.” Not even when she was encouraging me with body language and giving me plenty of space to pump up the ego… thought you’d speak;)

I love my wife dearly. I must admit that our current lifestyle has made my admiration for her beauty and power boundless. Our marriage has never been stronger - at least in my opinion! I am as faithful a man can be… So, I don’t make advances or seek others when other females are around. (Maybe that is why women approach me - because I’m not acting like I need to convince them that I am the town’s undisputed stud - LOL.)

After this little observation, I started thinking back and realized I had lost my “penetrator-approach” way back; I just hadn’t noticed it before…:-) I smiled, looked in the mirror, and spoke to myself: “XX - You are completely consumed - both mind and body by the pleasures of this lifestyle.” The transition is overwhelming, filling me with joy and pride. I smiled back at my reflection…

When I told my wife about my recent observation, she was very pleased with my new approach. She kissed me, giggled - and even used words like “Good boy” and “You make me proud”… … Just wanted to share this little tale of everyday signs showing transition and total embrace of the lifestyle…

BlueEyes